Same here, i have read a lot of other people's point of view on this topic..
And some of the views doesn't really based on the topic, but is based on their own feelings.
And most of them write about this topic just because they have recently heart broke.
LOVE
Yeah, love is important, i gotta admit. Never denied how the power of love can bring a lot in life.
With love, we can achieve a lot in life..
It brings us support, courage, care, optimism, shelter...
We do need love in our life, everyone does, no matter how much they deny it.
Without love, you are nothing..
People who says they don't need love, love is for losers.. they are just cowards..
They are afraid to find love which is already around them..
Maybe they felt betrayed before, but what they don't know is that love will always find them in many forms..
When i talk about love in the above statement, i don't only mean the type of lovey girl-boy kind of love..
I am talking about the international love, the love of god, parents, family, friendship and country..
Yeah.. :P
Who says to find love, you must find a GF or BF?
Yeah, love of course is much fun and flirty if its about the BF GF thing, but the most powerful love of all is the love of god and parents..
These kind of love is the forever, no-expiration date and tender-loving love ever..
No love can replace these love, or can out-shine them
The Love of God
Ask yourself, do u have a religion?If you do, do you have faith? Are you devoted into your religion?
Do you even pray as your religion requires you to?
Remember, God loves you..
God created you for a reason, and you should be thankful..
No matter what you do or don't, He always looks after you and forgives you when you ask for forgiveness...
Even if you don't, whenever you are in trouble, He will always help you by guiding you, or even show you a way which shall help you to go through the troubles..
Believe me, i know... Experienced a lot of guides from Him that made me who i am today..
God loves you, and as to show you how much, see the world around you..
The love of God is the ultimate love of all...
The love guides you through life, created who you are and will make you successful as you should..
Love Him back by praying and remembering him in every time of your life as you will develop faith and that will make you stronger and a believer to make you through every obstacle in your life..
The Love of Parents
I love my parents... Do you love yours?There have been some stories that i read, about children getting abused by their own parents, molested, thrown into garbages and even killed by their own parents..
Now, pinch your own hand... You are still alive, right?
So, your parents love you... Be happy about that.. :D
Yeah, some parents use the brute force to raise you up.. But still they love you..
Its their way of raising you, if they don't love you, you'll not be here reading my blog, instead you wouldn't be born as they wouldn't want you, am i right?
No matter what they say about you, or hurt you.. They actually love you...
Who pamper you when you are crying? Who raise you up until you are this big?
Who actually stayed up all night when you are sick when you r just a little baby?
Who spent thousands of dollars buying you toys, clothes, food, and school fees just so you can be the you today?
And a lot more who who questions which i am tired to write here.. :P
Anyways, if your parents scold you, there must be logical reason why...
You must have done something wrong, and the reason why they scold you is because they love you and they don't want you to repeat the same mistake as you grow older..
Their love have made who you are today.. Your confidence, your bravery, your strength and lots more are the result of their love and guidance towards you..
Without them, there will be no you..
Be thankful, and forever remember them.. even after they are gone..
Pray for their wellness..
And if they r still alive, visit them constantly and remember to take care of them..
The kind of person who disgrace me is the kind of people who would put their parents in the old folks home.. There is no logical explanation why u should put them there..
It only means you are not appreciating them of what they have done for u, n that u r a non-worthy child for me.. =.=
The Love of Family and Friendship
Who are your first friends in the world?
The answer is: You siblings.. am i right?
You share a deep bonding with them, other than the almost same DNA.. :P
The supportive people in your life are your siblings..
They understand you as they know you too well.. You grew up together yeah?
so u understand each other more than other people does.. Use that..
No one can understand you better than your own family...
Some people feel more open towards their friends compared to their own family...
Perhaps they wanted a person who doesn't know you well to judge you as they will give the sincere judgement, compared to your own family who will give you advices that you know they will give.. :P
And that is why we need friends..
Other than they judge you honestly, they also can accompany you whenever you are feeling sad or mad towards your family..
true friends is the one who will always be by your side, in bad and good times..
Its hard to find the true ones.. but when you do, never loose them..
You'll never know when you might find another.. :D
The Love between A Girl and A Boy
Yeah, this is my fav.. :P (well everyone is)This type of love is everyone's craving.. Everyone is busy finding the ONE, thus pushing aside all the other love that exist..
Yeah, its true.. Girls (especially) would push away their friends and family just to please their boys.. Idiots.. -.-
Any love that is based on these type of love is not forever lasting unless you tie up the knot..
Yeah, sad but true story in Malaysia is that when the guy gets what he wants from the girl (SEX), he will leave her, pregnant and move on to the next girl..
How pathetic.. The girls knows but still gave it all up..
For what? Huh..
And when you needed someone to help you raising the child, who would you turn to? Your family? They might forgive you.. But your friends? It might be too late for that as your betrayed them at the first place..
Most guys are choosers, you don't get to choose them, THEY CHOOSE YOU..
so don't even bother to flirt with them..
And when they do approach you, find out their intentions, if they really love you, go on.. If not, kick him to the curb.. :P
If a guy really loves you, he will ask you to marry him without delays.. and goes on with the marriage
That is my dream guy ;D
And the problem with the love haters..
They hate even hearing the word LOVE?
Why u ask me?
I'll tell you why...
Most of these type of people have been heart broken before.. probably rejected by some guy/girl
Believe me, been there done that.. :P
And some, they haven't try flirting or asking someone out, but yet they are already afraid and don't dare to ask... Asking Out-Phobia.. :P
They don't believe in Love anymore.. And it kills them to try to find a new love..
They forgotten that love is all around them...
And they are also cowards, as they are afraid to flirt again, afraid of being rejected AGAIN..
well, you know what.. the guy who rejected you are losers..
They lost it because they are losing a chance of a life time to be with a great person like you
Everyone is great in their own way, and everyone have someone made for them..
Choose a guy who is :
- caring and would love you no matter what..
- have a strong faith towards God and could guide you too
- loyal towards you and would given his life for you
- financially supporting you, not the other way around.. the ones who you'll ending up supporting them is not a REAL MAN
- would respect your parents and love them as much as you do
- strong and protective
other characteristics are not as important as above, but still is..
Choose carefully, and you will have a great life...
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